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Well, after being married for 46 years, I am not so good at this but I'll try. You want to attract a Christian young man and so those attributes of Christ in you is where you start. Kindness, patience, gentleness - these are attributes that are attractive to the right kind of a person. Be who you are, don't create someone you can't live up to being the rest of your life. Just be you. Pray about God's choice for you and He will put the relationship together and it will be a strong relationship built on a solid foundation. Pray for this young man. Ask God if he is the right life mate for you. Then trust God with His answers. Trust God to light a spark in the young man's heart. Ask yourself, why am I attracted to this young man? Make sure it is for the right reasons. If you seek God's will, you will find it. Be patient and wait. God bless you on the journey.
